Democratization of Information = Liberation of Opinions of the Closed Minded

Social media has long been hailed a medium that democratizes information consumption and production enabling the consumer to become a producer as well as a consumer. It has created the mash-up and regularly re-invents language with terms like ‘prosumer’. In more recent times though, we have seen what happens when absolutely everyone and anyone is given the chance to share their views and apparently what the population of internet user truthfully think is far more negative than positive. Social media platforms have given a voice to people who, arguably, should not have one.

Gasp! I know you are thinking and saying 'but everyone deserves the chance to be heard!' Not everyone. At the risk of sounding dictatorial biased let me be clear that I am not advocating for muzzling freedom of speech. What I mean when I say people who should not speak as freely as they do are those members of society who use social media to be disrespectful, negative and incite hatred for a particular individual, gender or person belonging to a particular race. Access to social media tools has made it possible to spread this negativity exponentially. Perfect examples of this were seen after female tennis champion Marion Bartoli won the Wimbledon tournament or when Gabby Douglas won gold at the Olympics. The kinds of hateful things that were tweeted about these women and many other people in the spotlight were nothing short of making me lose faith in the human race disconcerting.  

In sheer disgust I posted an article to my Facebook about some of the things tweeted about Bartoli where she was called fat and ugly and therefore, not deserving of being a champion. My problem with these kinds of comments goes beyond the obvious fact that they are a demonstration malicious and unwarranted verbal abuse, but that all the things pointed out as reasons of her unworthiness had absolutely nothing to do with her ability. There was a disconnect in my mind as to what her physical appearance had to do with her worthiness to be a winner. It still chills my bones that there are those who feel that if a woman does not meet a certain aesthetic ideal, she is the worthy recipient of threats of physical violence. Not surprisingly all the people who posted horrible things about her appearance were themselves ugly motherchuckers not especially attractive individuals. A friend of mine responded to my post by saying “These comments send a shiver down my spine. It’s less about calling her ugly as it is calling her a ‘whore’, ‘slut’ and ‘cunt’ summing up her deemed worthiness with threats of violence.” Not to mention the things tweeted about the blossoming young actress, Quvenzhane Wallis, instigated by the The Onion. The Onion, an online news outlet that claims to be America’s finest news source, tweeted that Wallis was kind of a cunt referring to the 2013 Oscars for which she received acclaim for her role in the movie, Beasts of the Southern Wild.  These are just some instances where the public, who are trusted to use the power of democratized media to add value to society, have abused that trust and used it to spread venom and the spirit of unkindness. Additionally, these examples form part of a greater problem of cyber bullying committed by cowards who hide behind their computer screens.

My questions are:

1. Why do people feel entitled to treat others in a way they would not like to be treated on social media platforms?
2. Why is it that when someone does something extraordinary onlookers, whose accomplishments pale in comparison, are the first to try and tear them down?
3. And finally, why does the public complain about wanting to break free from the unrealistic social expectations put on them through the media, but then reinforce them every chance they get on the various social media platforms?

I’ll end with a quote I read that said “If only closed minds came with closed mouths” –Unknown.

Conversations and Single Stories

The past week began with the provocative and, arguably, disrespectful cover image for the March edition of the Numero magazine. The magazine cover was titled ‘African Queen.’ The problem was that the representation of said African queen was a young white American model, Ondria Hardin. Not only was the girl white when in a plethora of African models in the fashion industry but, she had been bronzed so much that her skin looked like that of an African female. Many Americans and critics familiar with American history were outraged because the move was reminiscent of blackface; an offensive theatrical performance by white men painted black that was practiced in the U.S. prior to and during the civil rights movement.

I found myself on a Facebook page for the care of natural Afro hair perusing through the comments regarding the Numero cover. I couldn’t help but notice that the majority of comments questioned why the girl was not African American and pointed out that she didn’t look African American. I found it strange.  For a cover that read ‘African Queen’, why were people expecting to see an African American girl (AA) on the cover instead of an African one? I posed the question in the group and unfortunately was drawn into an unpleasant exchange. I tried to explain that nowadays AAs had come to represent all people of colour and while there was nothing wrong with that, it was, however, a single story that is not the story of the African female or any other black people elsewhere in the world. The tone of the conversation turned hostile and defensive. The women in the forum called me a bitter separatist claiming that I was unwilling to see black as black and that I was trying to trick them (although I am not sure what exactly it is I would gain from tricking them or how I would carry out this trickery through my proposition). One lady claimed that asking for not just representations of black women but African blacks specifically was tantamount to me saying that it was a negative thing for all black people to be represented by AAs and that they were not authentic African women. Let me be clear it is negative for any one group to come to represent all because this erases the unique and individual others. The more I tried to explain that the absence of actual African representation outside of the negative news coverage represented a gap that strips Africans of dignity and power, the more the insults flew. The owner of the Facebook page called me childish for having apologized for offending them because it showed that I was incapable of dealing with opposing opinions. I found this to be ironic considering the insults, I was not the one having trouble listening to another opinion. Everything I said was twisted and used as ammunition to label and try to ridicule me, so I left the group.

I once read a meme that said “Don’t get into an argument with a fool because they will beat you with experience.” I admit that I have little to no experience getting in heated debates with very defensive groups of people (thank God) and so I will leave the point making to someone more eloquent. In the talk ‘The Danger of a Single Story’ African author, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, points out how representations determine how people identify with others and how foreign representations may come to define an entire people and in doing so, inadvertently add to the invisibility of those people. In this case the erased is the African woman. Being a writer, Adichie’s experience is with literature “Because all I had read where books in which characters were foreign, I had become convinced that books by their very nature had to have foreigners in them and had to be about things with which I could not personally identify” she says. She goes on to explain that later she discovered African books written by African authors which caused a shift in her perception enabling her to see a space for African characters in literature. She began to write about things with which she could relate because she saw them represented in the works of other African authors. She began to write about African things. While everyone agrees that the media attempts to reduce the possibilities of blackness, the danger of the single story I was trying to call attention to was the reduced possibility of beautiful African blackness through synonymy with African Americanism.

Ref: http://blog.ted.com/2007/09/04/andrew_mwenda_i/

Why was it so wrong to want African female representation to be the representation of ‘African Queen’ as opposed to anything else? Everyday people fight for representation of diversity in movements such as gender, recognizing that while we are all human, straight males cannot represent women, gay men or the entire species. In the movements for racial equality people advocate for the fact that one race cannot represent all because of the immutability of racial diversity. In a nation like the U.S. that is home to multiple ethnicities, despite being American people still feel the need to identify as Latin American, Native American, Cuban American, on and on. So why was it so offensive or petty for me to suggest that having a black model was not enough but that she needed to be African as well for an authentic ‘African Queen’ cover?

I can see how easy it is to consider my position as one that seeks to divide rather than provide a space for inclusive representation. What Adichie talks about as the creation of a definitive story through those who have the power is something that was briefly mentioned during the exchange regarding Numero. The media shapes reality through representations and selective information dissemination. For example, as a Zimbabwean I have grown accustomed to people thinking that my presence in Namibia or in France is as a result of escaping suffering in Zimbabwe because it is inconceivable that my being outside of Zimbabwe was a choice made long before hardship, corruption, hunger, death and poverty became the Zimbabwean narrative. Ugandan journalist, Andrew Mwenda further illustrates that Western coverage of Africa is the truth of despair, helplessness and hopelessness but this truth is incomplete. At the time of his TED talk he explained that the reported reality of Africa was the smallest reality “Africa has 53 nations, we have civil war only in 6 countries” Mwenda says. What is my point? Knowledge gaps are created because of the fact that most media and its content are the narration of the African story told by the foreigner. These powerful stories negatively affect the lives of those who are either not represented at all or do not represent themselves. To see calling for more diverse representation as a negation of existing representations is a very narrow way to look at what I was trying say. Diverse representation as opposed to a single Western AA representation adds value to the progress that has already been made with regards to broadening the previous homogenous white female representations.

I left that Facebook conversation and page wondering why those women were so averse to my desire not to overlook the story of the African model but, my desire to see myself as an African woman in a story about an African Queen. I also left having learnt about the sentiments of others who could be quick to perceive the acknowledgement of diversity as either taking away from them or being an actor of division. Everything I feel about the whole online ‘squabble’ is in this meme below:

Femininity and Power

I recently watched a TED Talk given by model, Cameron Russell, titled ‘Looks aren’t everything- Believe me, I’m a model.’ Her talk was a truthful introspective look at how her ability to thrive in the world is due to her feminine agency. Said agency is as a result of historical racial bias that persists today. She unpacks the gender and racial oppression that embody industries of consumption and media. These industries operating as “the gatekeepers of beauty” as described by Oscar winning actress, Lupita Nyongo’o, prescribe femininity as skinny with white skin. Cameron’s talk highlights the fact that saying looks don’t matter, doesn’t make it so. Based on the feminine beauty prescription, looks do in fact matter and negatively affect the lives of not just women, but men who don’t fit into particular prescribed body standard aesthetic. In Paulo Freire’s Pedagogy of the Oppressed, he explains “Every prescription represents the imposition of one individual’s choice upon another, transforming the consciousness of the person prescribed to into one that conforms with the prescriber’s consciousness.”(2005, p.47). Oppression today exists in the form of repression by those who are othered and suppression of otherness, particularly the positives of otherness, in the media and in everyday life. Prescription is telling people how to be or exist, which when it comes to looks is ridiculous given that physical attributes are generally immutable and out of anyone’s control. “There are people paying a cost based on their looks not on who they are.” Russell says. Additionally, the power or agency that women like Russell have is placebo power because as she pointed out she and women like her are not in control of anything including their own agency. They too are slaves to the need to ascribe to the prescription in order to maintain the power they do have. So what is to be done about the persistent gender and racial oppression?

Simply Encouraging

A  friend of mine recently told me that she read an article about how being around negative people kills brain cells. Obviously there is some truth to this seeing as we all have a very strong urge to flee from the possibility of having to interact with dark cloud people. For some time now I have been tumblring (if that is even a word) quotes that keep me from committing acts that would land me in jail when I am having a rough day.

I am officially sharing my guilty pleasure with anyone who reads the Lamenting journalist:

http://tendayiolga.tumblr.com/

MissRepresentation

The older I get the more I realize that the fight for
femininity in itself is biased and unbalanced so
many more levels than just gender. It is something
that women I have met across the board have talked
about whether in academia, entertainment or
professionalism. There is a clear skewing of what
it is to be a woman towards a caucasian woman.

All women are faced with the trauma of being
devalued for everything but beauty. We are constantly
taught that most of our success will depend largely on how attractive we are and it is
visible through all spheres of lived life. Older female actresses can’t find work
anymore except for playing the role of someone’s catty mother in law or evil boss.  I
think the only thing women are burnt at the stake for other than ageing (which there
is nothing to be done about) is being “fat”. The fight to be rail thin is always on and
women actually purposefully make themselves look like an emaciated starving child
in some famine stricken country because that is what is considered beautiful.

Last but certainly not least is the actual framing of femininity and beauty as equated
to white femininity and beauty. The romantic films with the woman, who is adored,
sought after and fought for is almost always a white woman. Are these just the ramblings
of another bitter black woman? No. That label bitter black woman is the response people
give because the truth makes them uncomfortable or because it draws attention to the
malicious damage this does to women of other races.

Jackie from the Jammie Fox show was recently part of a panel that was discussing the
issue of women of color finding men. Also on the panel was New York Times best-
selling author Steve Harvey. He explained some of the principles in his book ‘Act like
a Lady, Think like a Man’. Jackie pointed out the fact that she goes out and acts like a
lady and sits and waits for a man to approach her. Whereas other women (not women
of color) run up to men shake their booty in the faces of men and yet they are still
adored. She went on to say that if she or a woman of color were to do that then there
would be a derogatory name attached to her. She went on to give an example of how
bad behavior by white women is rewarded like certain women who made sex tapes
who were then offered perfume fragrance deals, handbag deals, modeling contracts
and actually are totted around on the arms of athletes proud to call them their woman Again
I throw out the question: bitter black woman complaining? No. Woman of color asking the
question why has long hair; flat behinds and emaciation become the standard put
upon all women for beauty?





I joined a forum that teaches men how to be better at attracting women through
various techniques. For the longest time I have fought with myself on whether or not
to leave the forum. Why? Because all and I mean all of the imagery of “sexy” women
are white. One Arab guy actually posted a thread on how race is a barrier for him.
Why? Because he is gunning for white women. Another Indian guy wrote that he
needed help because the brown skin thing sometimes turns girls off. Which girls might
these be I wonder: Indian girls, black girls, Latin American girls? I think we all know
the answer to that. There was even a white girl who saw a picture of one of the
instructors with a black girl and her immediate question was “did you sleep with that
black girl?” What is the aim of the forum to teach men confidence and self actualization
or teach them confidence with a certain type of woman? A documentary was released
about being black in Latin America which looked at how many actors/actresses who
play African Americans are actually from Latin America but because “the world”
expects native Spanish speakers to look more like Penelope Cruz or Antonio Banderas,
the only parts they can get are those of African Americans.

A recent survey of diversity of models on the runways for the various fashion shows
indicated that there is some improvement to the number of models from other races
but not nearly enough for anyone to be patting themselves on the back for. The
importance of this variety is that the models on the runway are then chosen by brands
to represent them and that without variety the faces for perfume, clothes and shops
will continue to be white and thin. Click the link below to read the article

http://jezebel.com/5843912/the-impact-of-diversity-on-the-catwalk?tag=modelbehavior&fb_source=message

Now I want to be clear (and perhaps I should have said this in the beginning) I am not
against white beauty or whatever is can be called but I am against the valuing of that
beauty above all others to the point of erasure of all others. The world at large prides
itself on having moved forward from the days of race but I argue that all that has
happenedis a pretense of the non existence of race issues. I am tempted to say that
the quotefrom the film ‘The Usual Suspects’ is absolutely right “the best trick the devil ever
pulled was to convince the world he doesn’t exist”. In these circumstances it is hard
for women of other races to hold a sense of themselves when they are constantly
made to feel like they are performing failed femininity because they don’t have hair
that cascades down their backs. The talk of uniqueness and variety is all talk to give
people a false sense of acceptance when everything else suggests that women of other
races divest themselves from the bodies they live in. Self worth is being externally
shaped by people who do not have the entire female population’s interest at heart.